“It takes a woman to learn how to stand in love again after having collected all the pieces of her heart from the callus hands of the one who broke it… but it takes an even stronger man to love a woman like that back to love by showing her the way she deserves to be loved – and making her believe it, too.”
Being with her means that you really love her. Otherwise, why are you wasting time around her? But we are all humans, and we have changeable emotions so that you may love her, but is that the right way?
If you treat a woman not well enough, you can change your relationship. You can turn a healthy relationship into a bad one.
Anyway, you should love her as she should be loved. You should appreciate her greatness because appreciation keeps your connection healthy and strong. Do you remember the first time you saw her? Wasn’t she everything that you have ever wanted?
This woman has something you have never found in another woman before. Maybe it is her appearance; maybe it is because she is funny and she is wild. There is just something special about her.
Her completeness made you fall for her. If you really love her, you should keep her because she is pretty, natural and complete. Although this woman is the one in control of her life, you should know that you as a person are important to her, you have a role.
The way you treat this woman is how she looks at herself. Yes, you can make her happy, or you can make her miserable. This woman is like a flower in your hands; she wants and needs to be held with carefulness.
In case you love her, do not destroy her.
So, if you have true feelings for her, you should be careful not to hurt her. Once she was damaged, and she does not need to go through it again. She is not with you to be destroyed again.
Do you know that her decision to be with you means that she is brave enough to overcome her fears as well as insecurities? This woman has decided to forget her bad past and believe in love again. She believes in you. She has faith in you.
Try to be present. Your emotional absence can destroy her. You can stay with her all day long and not actually be present. Respect her, and do not disappoint her. Although you think you know her well, you do not. You can hurt her if you believe you know her. She is not a book with an end; she is something that you will get to know each day.
Remember that if you ignore her and forget her, you will break her forever and change her forever. You can turn her into a person who does not look like the girl you fell in love with.
She wants you to know that your love, patience, understanding, and attitude are important. You should never even think of treating her like a broken doll. She is a woman with scars, and you need to accept her like that, but make sure not to make any more wounds.
Do not destroy her. Instead, try to become the man that’s able to embrace her rampant soul, her free spirit, and her wild heart.
You are the person that should help her realize that everything she has gone through in her life was for a reason. Everything bad that has ever happened to her was to teach her how to appreciate the good things in her life, like you.
Try to stimulate her being, her emotions, and her thoughts. You will destroy every inch of her in case you only love her when you are feeling lonely, as she does seek your love in each moment, not just when your insecurities and fears strike.
In case you truly love her, then love her with all her insecurities and flaws. She’s actually as imperfect as you are. Also, she does hope to share that imperfection with you. She does want to be utterly herself and undress her soul in front of you.
She does want to be the same way with you that she’s in the mirror—free, wild, and crazy. In case you aren’t ready to accept her as she is, you’ll destroy her.
In case you love her, then build her up, since she’ll do the same for you. What effort you put in, she’ll put in double.
In case you take her to a well, then she will introduce you to the ocean. In case you show her the moon, then she will show you the whole galaxy. In case you truly love her and treat her right, then she will love you more.